Sexual health changes are normal, but they can throw you off. Low desire, pain during sex, vaginal dryness, or trouble reaching orgasm come up for many women at different times. This tag pulls together plain answers about causes, simple fixes you can try, and when to get professional help. No jargon — just straightforward steps you can use today.
Vaginal dryness is one of the most common complaints. Try a water-based lubricant during sex and a vaginal moisturizer for daily comfort. If you’re in menopause, a low-dose vaginal estrogen often helps; ask your clinician about options. Pain with intercourse (dyspareunia) can have many causes: infections, tight pelvic floor muscles, scars, or hormonal changes. A pelvic floor physiotherapist can show you exercises and relaxation techniques that actually make sex less painful.
Low libido often feels personal, but it usually has clear reasons. Stress, sleep loss, relationship issues, new meds, and hormone changes all matter. Start by checking sleep, alcohol intake, and relationship patterns. Counseling or sex therapy can help when emotional or relationship issues play a role. If hormones are a likely cause, a clinician can review options like adjusting contraception or considering hormone therapy.
Some drugs change desire, arousal, or orgasm. Antidepressants (SSRIs) commonly lower libido or delay orgasm for both women and men. Blood pressure meds and certain antihistamines can also blunt sexual response. Hormonal contraceptives change some women’s desire — the effect varies a lot. If a new medication lines up with sexual changes, don’t stop it on your own. Talk to the prescriber about switching drugs, lowering the dose, or adding a treatment that targets sexual side effects.
Thinking about supplements or buying meds online? Be cautious. Supplements can interact with prescription drugs. If you buy medication online, use a reputable pharmacy that requires a prescription and shows clear contact details and registration. Our site has guides on buying meds safely and what red flags to watch for.
When should you see a clinician? If pain is persistent, if bleeding or unusual discharge appears, or if sexual changes affect your mood or relationship, make an appointment. A clinician can run tests, review medicines, and refer you to specialists like a pelvic physiotherapist, endocrinologist, or sexual therapist.
No one-size-fits-all fix exists, but small changes often help a lot. Try simple measures first: better lubrication, a short break from sex to reduce pressure, improved sleep, or a medication review. Then move to targeted care if problems persist. Browse the articles tagged here for specific drug guides, tips on side effects, and safe ways to source medications. And remember: asking for help is a smart step, not a weakness.